Why is it so disturbing? If you are going by the bible, I read on this other debate (or maybe it was this one) some very interesting passages. The only things it says against homo***uality is when it is rape. I think God would accept any kind of love, isn't loving the number one rule?
And wouldn't it be more of a sin to change who you really are than to love who you love?
But then are you saying that God encourages love(physical) between a grown person and a young child if they both consent? Isn't that just another kind of love? Spread the love! Yes we should love everyone, but that doesn't mean we should be ***ually active with everyone.
And no, I don't think it's a sin to change yourself. I think part of serving God is denying your own passions and doing his will. The general public disagree with the idea that we shouldn't change ourselves. That's why so many people make New Years Revolutions.
Do not lie with a man as one lies
with a woman; that is detestable.
Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts.
Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones.
In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations
with women and were inflamed with lust for one another.
Men committed indecent acts with other men,
and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.